Mistakes Can Happen – How Do You Deal With Them?

We sent out our first SHAPE YOUR FUTURE mailing list yesterday to 100+ people… and opened with “Hey [Name]”.
Yup. The classic.

Apparently, the first name wasn’t automatically filled in.. Now, if you’d known me in my past life as a perfectionist manager, this would’ve triggered a meltdown.


Back then, I had a 𝘧𝘭𝘢𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘴 or die trying policy. Typos? I could spot them from space. A double space between two words? I’d rewrite the whole thing.

But something funny happened yesterday: I smiled. Then laughed.
And then I turned to our own leadership model.

💨 Air helped me put it into perspective. It’s just a silly mistake. No babies cried.
💧 Water reminded me to be kind to myself. “Hey, it happens.”

These moments are where (personal) leadership begins.


Not in doing everything right, but in how we respond when things go wrong.


Mistakes? They’re inevitable. The real question is: What can I learn from this?

If that kind of leadership resonates with you, come join @anouk and me. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗥𝗶𝗽𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗘𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁 – our next one-day training – is happening September 19th at The Hoorneboeg.


We’ll explore how to lead with more empathy, compassion and connection – even when your email says “Hey [Name]”.


We still have a few spots left. DM me for more information or check out or website www.shapeyourfuture.info.

Sneak Peak Of The Location of Shape Your Future – A Unique Leadership Experience

Picking up from last week’s post about that golf cart ride through the forest… 🌲 Here’s where we ended up.

Anouk Benders – MindBenders and I were out scouting the location for 𝗦𝗛𝗔𝗣𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗙𝗨𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗘 —our three-day leadership experience—and we found the right place.

It’s not just beautiful; it also has a sense of luxury and warmth that makes you feel at home the moment you arrive.

Quality is everything to us for this event, and we knew the setting needed to be perfect. We’re happy to have found the right match.

Take a look at the photos to see what we mean. This spot was chosen to create a deep, immersive experience—where ambitious leaders can come together for growth, connection, and real development.

𝗦𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲: 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵 𝟮𝟭-𝟮𝟯, 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟱. We’ve already had a lot of interest, which is exciting to see.

If you’re thinking about joining us and want to stay updated, send me a DM, and I’ll add you to our list.

Location Spotting For Shape Your Future – A Unique Leadership Experience

Just another day at the office—cruising through the forest in a golf cart! 🌲😄

I’m teaming up with Anouk Benders – MindBenders on a project that’s close to both of our hearts.

Our goal is to help ambitious leaders create a positive future, and we’re developing something we believe will do just that.

Last week, we visited the location where it’s all going to happen—March 21-23, 2025.

After exploring, I can honestly say we’ve found the perfect spot.

We’re excited to see this vision come to life and can’t wait to share more with you soon!

Stay tuned for updates—exciting things are on the way!