Letโs look at one tool from the leadership toolkit: training, mentoring and coaching your team. ๐
Demystifying the use of ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด, and ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด.
All three are essential skills for any manager.
Use the right skill at the right time to maximize your teamโs development.
So, when to use what?
๐ง๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด: ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ป๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ธ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ ๐
Perfect for beginners, training is directive and instructional, focusing on knowledge transfer to lay a solid skill foundation. Usually short-term.
“๐๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ด๐ด๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ, ๐โ๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐, ๐ , ๐ก.โ
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๐๐ช๐ฑ: verify, in a supportive, non-controlling way, if the training was successful and the desired skills were learned.
๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด: ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ด๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐งญ
Suited for mid-level to senior team members, mentoring offers guidance and wisdom from personal experience. Guide your team members on their professional journey. Longer term.
“๐๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ, ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ’๐ด ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ ๐ต๐ข๐ค๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ญ๐ข๐ณ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ๐ด. ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ด๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐จ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฌ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ?”
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๐๐ช๐ฑ: the relationship is essential in mentoring – take a genuine interest in your mentee.
๐๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด: ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ณ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐๐ต ๐
Ideal for more senior team members, coaching is an equal partnership that promotes self-discovery and maximizes their potential. No advice or instructions are given.
Through questions, help your coachee discover what they want, and how theyโll get there. Only effective if coachee is motivated to be coached.
“๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐จ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฎ?”
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๐๐ช๐ฑ: a good coach is a good listener โ practice active listening and ask open-ended questions.
Every team member, regardless of their role or seniority, might find value in training, mentoring, or coaching, tailored to their unique needs at different times.
Which of the three did you benefit the most from in your career?
Completing My 5-Month Coaching Training
Using the words โ๐โ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐น๐ค๐ช๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆโ in 2024 feels a bit like using a fax machine, but itโs how I feel right now.
Five months after starting, I completed the Co-Active Intermediate coaching training last weekend.
Iโm now trained in Co-Active Training Institute‘s effective and transformative Co-Active coaching model and ready to start coaching professionally!
A quote I heard during that weekend stayed with me:
“๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ธ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ๐ด, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ป๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ.”
Five months ago, I left a decade-long career and the safety that comes with it, to start this adventure.
Looking back, this marked the beginning of my ‘second life’ โ committed to helping others live happier and more fulfilling lives. And so far, I have loved every step of it.
I rediscovered my creativity, intuition, and sense of purpose. And learned that fear is just a feeling! Doing something scary for me feels liberating.
The phrase โmaking the most out of lifeโ always seemed clichรฉ, until I realized itโs extremely valuable advice. And one of the things coaches help with.
A big thank-you to everyone who supported me the last 5 months, to my fellow coaches for sharing your experiences, to my Co-Active peers for your inspiration, and particularly to those Iโve coached for your openness and trust.
Interested in more happiness, balance, growth and fulfillment in life? Feel free to reach out; I’d love to discuss this further.
Whatโs next? I’m trained, energized, and ready to begin. Stay tuned for next week’s update on how I plan to transform clichรฉs into realities, one coaching session at a time.




